26 May 2008

Jawapan Rindu

Terasa sesuatu

Persoalan memanggil
Di benak yg paling mendalam
sehingga menjadi ralit
Semakin jiwa dilanda
Gelora Sang Penanti
Semakin sukar difahami
Puncanya gelisah ku ini

Hanya kekosongan
Jua kehilangan
kurasai
Menghuni hati

Di mana kan ku temui
Penghujungnya resah ini
Seumpama ku menanti sejawapan Rindu
Di mana kan ku temui
Oh sinaran yg hakiki
Untuk menjadi penyuluh
Jalan didepanku
Hingga akhir waktu

Andainya kau temui
Cahaya yang ku cari
Sudikah dikongsi bersama
Sebagai teman mahupun sebagai kekasih

merenung bayangan jauh
Menatap pengertian
Menyelam dasar persoalan
Menyelongkar kemuncak maksud

Sejatikah Sebuah Cinta


Sejatikah sebuah cinta
Hanya bermain dengan perasaan

Wujudkah sebuah kebahagiaan
Tanpa kesetiaan dan kejujuran

Bermaknakah sebuah janji
Tanpa diiringi keikhlasan

Bersungguhkah sebuah kejujuran
Seandainya bersulamkan dusta

Kekalkah sebuah perhubungan
Yang terjalin di atas dasar kasihan

Teguhkah sebuah ikatan
Sekadar untuk menjaga hati dan perasaan

Mestikah sebuah pertemuan
Diakhiri dengan perpisahan

Unggulkah sebuah rindu
Yang diselubungi pelbagai rasa

Benarkah sebuah penantian
Adalah satu penyeksaan

Terkuburkah sebuah harapan
Setelah sekian lama bersemi

Tercalarkah sebuah cinta

Yang digamit kenangan silam

Tercapaikah sebuah impian
Dengan hanya berangan-angan

Terjadikah sebuah kenyataan
Biarpun tanpa kerelaan

Bahagiakah sebuah kehidupan
Tanpa perasaan kasih dan sayang

Pudarkah sebuah kasih sayang
Andai kebencian sudah mengundang di hati

Ke manakah sebuah cita-cita
Yang diiringi doa dan harapan

Maniskah sebuah kejayaan
Tanpa dikongsi dengan orang yang tersayang

Retakkah sebuah istana
Dengan kehadiran insan ketiga

Berhargakah sebuah pengorbanan
Insan yang bernama wanita

Terubatkah sebuah kekecewaan
Jika hati sudah terluka

Mampukah sebuah kemaafan
Mengubati hati yang berkecai

Mengapakah sebuah kelukaan
Meninggalkan kesan yang teramat mendalam…

22 May 2008

A Friend Whos Always There



If I could catch a rainbow

I would do it just for you,

And share with you its beauty

On the days you're feeling blue

If I could build a mountain

You could call your very own,

A place to find serenity,

A place to be alone

If I could take your troubles

I would toss them in the sea,

But all these things I'm finding

Are impossible for me

I cannot build a mountain,

Or catch a rainbow fair,

But let me be what I know best,

A friend who's always there

Don't lie to yourself

Don't lie to yourself- see everything for exactly what it is. You have friends and family that love you. Learn How to be thankful. Think of all the things you have to be happy about. Relax, calm down, take things slower. No one has everything, and everyone has something of sorrow intermingled with gladness of life. The trick is to make the laughter outweigh the tears. We cannot change the past, but we can enjoy today, and look to the future. But if we are prepared to take ownership for the past and accept that everything that happened in our life, good and bad, has made us the person we are - the battle is half won.

Be yourself. You can't please everybody. Much criticism is caused by people who are discontented with themselves, not you. Comparing yourself to others is rarely accurate in your personal life (obviously: they are themselves - you are you!). In the first place, no one knows what other people are going through. More importantly, when you compare yourself to other people, you often see yourself on the "short end". See how this is not helpful to you or your goals. One way to get 'in touch with yourself' is through journaling, diaries or (lately) blogs. Your goal may be to open up completely to yourself and learn to be your best friend by knowing that the truth (to yourself) will set you free from fear! Practice self-acceptance - or learn to transform from mistakes. Find ways to enjoy things you are uncomfortable with. You'll respect yourself for getting through challenges, and that self-respect will make you happy.

Choose your friends carefully. Nearly everyone needs someone who cares for them and treats them well. If you have friends who are treating you badly, then ditch them and find friends that do care about you. If you can't find any friends like that in your current circumstances, then look elsewhere. If you're feeling sad, there's nothing like going out with your friends to make you feel better. Surround yourself with friends who are positive, encouraging, and helpful. We all need this continuing, positive encouragement to make solid positive progress in life.